Rosemary Jonah
February 4, 2026
Parental favoritism remains one of the most underestimated sources of emotional harm within families.
When a child is consistently favoured over their siblings through attention, trust, praise, or protection – it creates invisible wounds which often persist into adulthood.
The damage deepens when parents make judgments without hearing all sides, automatically assuming the “trusted” child is right while others are dismissed. Over time, fairness disappears, resentment takes root, silence replaces healthy communication.
Even more troubling is the celebration of achievement without regard for integrity. Children who struggle but remain honest are often belittled, while those who succeed through questionable means are rewarded. This sends a dangerous message, that results matter more than character.
Constant comparison among siblings further fractures family bonds. Instead of fostering growth, it breeds rivalry, erodes self-esteem, transforms a supposed safe space into an arena of quiet competition.
Every child is unique; with different strengths, weaknesses, emotional needs. Favoritism does not motivate, rather it wounds. Comparison does not inspire, it destroys. A truly united family is built by parents who listen fairly, correct wisely, love without bias conditions.
Strong families are not built on favorites, but on fairness, empathy, respect.
