By Anamati Inyang,December 3, 2025
Not every relationship is meant to end in marriage and that is okay. True maturity is understanding that choosing not to marry someone does not make a person evil or unkind. It simply means the relationship was not built on the right compatibility.
Too often, people react to breakups with gossip or false stories. Some feel entitled to judge those who walk away or decide to remain single. Society sometimes stigmatizes these decisions, as if staying single or ending a relationship reflects weakness or failure. This is unfair and hurtful.
Maturity is realizing that each person has the right to protect their peace and dignity. Choosing to end a relationship or remain single rather than enter a mismatched marriage should be seen as wisdom not a flaw. It takes courage to make decisions based on self respect and clarity rather than societal pressure.
We also need to stop spreading lies or creating assumptions about people simply because they made choices that do not suit others. Relationships are deeply personal and what works for one couple may not work for another. Growth comes when we respect these choices without passing judgment.
At its heart, maturity is about empathy, understanding, and self awareness. Walking away from a relationship does not make someone a villain. It shows that they value themselves, recognize what is compatible, and refuse to be pressured into decisions that compromise their happiness.
As a society, we must learn to respect these decisions and celebrate people who act with integrity and honesty. It is time we honor choice and encourage authenticity instead of judgment.
